I’m single. And this Valentine’s day I celebrated love. I celebrated with friends, roommates, and co-workers. Love is something to celebrate, despite being single or in a relationship.
I was unsure how to feel going into Valentine’s day. Honestly, I didn’t have a bad day. I had a great day. I choose to be thankful for what I have and be patient with my dreams of being in a relationship again one day.
Don’t think for one minute that I am completely content in my singleness. I’ll be the first to tell you- I am not. But what I am trying to be content in is God. His plans for me. I’m kinda really excited about the phase of life I’m in. I’m about to graduate college. My life is full of opportunity. That’s so exciting and hopeful to me! I am blessed by being single. I have MORE time to serve, love others, and work hard for the passions God has placed within my heart.
I am reading a book called Calm my Anxious Heart and it is so unbelievably good that I keep re-reading chapters over and over. It is one of those refreshing slaps in the faces, ya know? The book talks again and again (because I keep reading again and again) about how contentment in the Lord is real and true when you can be content despite your circumstances. WOW. That is how I want to be able to live: joyfully content in the Lord- no matter what is going on in my life.
To my other single friends, it’s okay to feel discontent with being single. It’s okay to long for the season of life that means having a husband, a family, and everything else. God has designed us to be in relationships with others. In the Garden of Eden, God made Eve because he saw that it was not good for Adam to be alone! I want to challenge you to trust God with those details of life. He knows your desires- they are from Him!